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PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: Girl trouble!
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Theres a girl in my class who is going out with my best mate.
but she says her best friend really fancies me and it's Joe this Joe that.
But the thing is from what i've seen.
i don't really like her.
and now her best friend is chasing me everywhere with her other friends saying:
"where's your male dignity, Talk to her!"
"you'll never find someone else"
and i was playing football today and her friends were there one minute then they wern't and she was looking at
me in this weird way.
and now all the people in my tutor are jeering me b'cos i ran away.
when i didn't i just tried to get away beacuse they were restrainging me by tieing me to fences and punching me.
and now i'm kind of scared to go into school because all my mates have all had girlfriends and i havn't.
and they say:
2 go out with her and thenm dump her the next day so you can sya you've ahd a gfriend."
but thats mean.
please help otherwise i'm gonna end up bunking off or staying away from my friends.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 10:40 pm    Post subject:
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go out wit her mate

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i just can't bring myself to talk anymore.
not to anybody face to face.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:22 pm    Post subject:
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look fagata i appreciate you trying your best but it ain't halping.
i need advice on what to do about it.
cos now her best mate is telling me she is so UPSET that i haven't talked to her.
i just need help from someone with experiance!




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PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:54 pm    Post subject:
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so go have a small chat if she asks you out say

"i'm not ready"
"don't wanna go out with anyone at this moment"

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 9:13 pm    Post subject:
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ive got dat same problem just try 2 ignore her or atleast tell ur not interested or something. tell ur m8s u dont care wot day think and og and ask the girl ur like out. if this helpd plz add karma and tokens

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right what you do is talk to her just a little and then maybe try and say to her that you aint ready yet and maybe she might like lay off a bit if you tell her that the more she is upset the worst it makes you feel and she might give you some space

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 12:01 am    Post subject:
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Just say no as u said in ure first post you dont like her and your only young you got ure hole life to find some 1, its not worth going out with some one if you dont like them and dont listen to ure mates thats wrong just say to them u dont like her and ure not going to go out with her and thell probs tease u for a week then move onto the next kid, just dont get forced into anything u dont want its upto u its ure life, ive had it all at school before

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:50 am    Post subject:
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Tell your mates to stick to their own business and dont be going into yours.

And tell her that your not ready yet

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 8:09 pm    Post subject:
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They are bullying you becuase you don't feel the same way about her
It is ridiculous how they think you should go out with her and dump her... And that would make you have a fit in with the 'I've had a girlfriend (go me)'. The people in your tutor are absolute idiots.
You should have a girlfriend when you really respect and admire that person, in your own time when you are ready. What's the point in having someone to call a 'girlfriend' if you have no feelings what-so-ever for her?
You should be really flattered that someone likes you so much. But if you don't feel the same way, drop signs, but try not to hurt her.
Tell the guys in your tutor that you don't care if they have 'girlfriend'. It's what you want. And you are happy without. If they continue to harrass you, then you really should tell someone about it. It's not fair, and you shouldn't have to suffer.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:16 pm    Post subject:
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Thanks guys!
and anyway it turns out she dosn't want me any more! WOOHOOO!
she now fancy's this kid bcoz of his hair!
stupid.

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omg she is one weard person because of his hair lol im glad you got it sorted

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