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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 3:36 pm    Post subject: Ugh i can t take it anymore
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there is this boy in my class he is from my old school as well he keeps bullying me calling me names physically pnching me i fell like to smash his windows puppy his dads car up and much more i dont want to do that any advice on how to fix this

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 5:18 pm    Post subject:
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People'll say "tell a teacher" but sometimes that just doesn't work.
Stand up to him, and next time he punches you, turn 'round and floor him. He will gain respect for you, but don;t be suprised when you totally whales on you, just keep on fighting until he backs down. Show him that you're not weak.

If you feel you can, though, tell a teacher.

NB. Make sure you don't go too far while fighting, don't go overboard and try and kill him, take it as self-defense, just do it to get him down, but if you feel your life is in imminent danger of ending, it's no rules, fight dirty if you have to.

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 6:18 pm    Post subject:
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When my boyfriend was younger he was bullied quite a lot apparently. One day in Year 9 someone was taking the **** out of how he walked or something, so he turned round and punched him in the face. He's not a violent person at all, he'd just got to the end of his tether. I think the kid left him alone after that, which proves it works to show who's boss, but at the same time he got suspended for a day for punching him.

I would say don't stoop to his level and be violent - try and restrain yourself even if he fires you up one day. I would just rise above it, and find some short n sweet comebacks perhaps..? As for him hitting you, try and make it visable to a teacher if possible if you don't feel comfortable actually telling them.


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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:09 pm    Post subject:
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well i will try kicking him in the balls next time will post wot happens

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:27 pm    Post subject:
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It's best not to hit someone, but if you feel that's the right thing to do then do it. This is coming from a pacifist, so you can see why I said that. As said, sometimes telling a teacher doesn't work. Good luck!

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:51 pm    Post subject:
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It's best not to hit someone, but if you feel that's the right thing to do then do it. This is coming from a pacifist, so you can see why I said that.


Would a pacifist not be completely and utterly against violence though, and not give the exception that it's ok to do it if you feel it's the right thing?

I personally wouldn't retaliate violently but I guess it's up to you TheNamesKiller at the end of the day.





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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 8:18 pm    Post subject:
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Find his weakness - exploit it by ripping him. Alternatively floor him.

If those fail, tell somoene else.

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 8:26 pm    Post subject:
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KCLiVES wrote:
Find his weakness - exploit it by ripping him. Alternatively floor him.

If those fail, tell somoene else.


As KC said, don't back down from him, confront him and show him that you're not weak and that he cannot boss you around.

If possible whilst he is with a group of his friends, embarrass him by perhaps telling them a secret about him that you may have learned about whilst you were at school together before.

This will totally humiliate him and he'll probably leave you alone although there is a bit of a risk that he'll try and get revenge but if that happens then just give him a good thumping and that'll sort him out.

This happened to me once

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Also, if all fails, just tell a teacher or a parent.

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PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 9:10 pm    Post subject:
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This is harsh.........

If he has a girlfriend say too her I saw your boyfriend try to kiss someone else today!

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PostPosted: Tue May 20, 2008 7:13 am    Post subject:
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well i called him peguin feet casue he walks like a penguin didnt do much

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PostPosted: Tue May 20, 2008 8:00 am    Post subject:
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Just tell someone and also when u are around him get some hard men round u.

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PostPosted: Tue May 20, 2008 5:25 pm    Post subject:
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Best thing to do (Not that way, the best thing to do is to tell someone, but you know what I mean,) is find something REALLY personal, like his mum dying, or him being raped or something, and use that against him, not just something petty like the way he walks.

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PostPosted: Tue May 20, 2008 5:30 pm    Post subject:
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Beat the hell out of him till he can't walk.

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