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| JJ44DD |
DanI think i still love the guy, although i shouldn't. I was going out with him for about 2 and a half weeks, in march last year.He finished with me because i liked Khateeb too much... after that Khateeb didn't seem to be interested in me, so i bet he did it on purpose 
I didn't have any contact with Dan, until June, when he sent me a message on MSN telling me he has got his car now  we only talked for 5 mins, until he went again.
The next time he was on was when he replied to my email about killing myself, he came on 2 days later, saying he feels that i'm the only person he can talk to because he wants to end it all, it was hard helping him as he has a answer to everything, then he did a countdown and signed off. He then came on in September, he wouldn't reply to me, then i said why are you ignoring me? he said he's not interested anymore and he's interested in men, then changed his msn name to "i'm interested in men, and have no STI's, call me. The thing is i don't know if that was him 
as he said he gave his msn and RS to someone
Heres the last email i got from him: (read bottem to top) no jodie i ****in loved u and u knew it,s the only reason i replied was because my whole family h8s me and have thrown me out and i have no1, so i am going to end it all, soon.xx OMG DANIEL!!!! DO YOU HATE ME???? HAVE YOU BLOCKED ME ON EVERYTHING??????? easy poll slit your troat quick and >messy  1 ear to the other.>
I tried emailing him since, but it just sends me a message back saying it can't be delivered
What should i do? |
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| Chrissie |
Im sorry but the bit thats kinda annoyed me is the '2 and a half weeks' how is that long enough to love someone?!?!!
I was with my ex for 3 YEARS and although we loved each other we didnt start saying we were gonna kill ourselves. He's just attention seeking or it someone messing around on his account. From what you said how often have you seen each other? Coz this all seems to be online....? |
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| akasquid |
http://ie.youtube.com/watch?v=PxAxRBouK1c | ||||||
| dan_brown1 |
no m8 if thats meant to be funny, IT ISNT! this is a serious topic so come back when your NOT banned preferebly | ||||||
| Chrissie |
Ummm...he cannot see this as his is perm banned...so pointless post much 
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| Alice Smith |
What A Pathectic Person !! Sorry Jodie I Have No Idea What You Should Do 
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| birjuharia |
text him or try to ring him | ||||||
| JJ44KK |
The person who said sorry- don't be it's not your fault some idiot posted a dumb clip=]
I don't have his number(i deleted it when he dumped me) I feel stupid now=[ |
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| ryberto |
sorry chrissie but your so unbelievably wrong if the person is just right for you then 2 weeks and a half is way more than enough,m some relationships take time but it is totally possible to love someone i mean you can love someone even if you havent been out with them. |
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| JJ44KK |
Yeah ryberto is right=] | ||||||
| Chrissie |
Trust me, you have no idea what love is. You may think you do but you dont. Wait until you are engaged/married to your special someone, or until you have a child with that person THEN you might understand what love truely is. Because little 2 weeks things....trust me its not love. |
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| JJ44KK |
A year and 4 months have passed, since he finished with me, and i still think about him all the time... that's not love=/ | ||||||
| ryberto |
look a long time is special and i dont wanna say that yours wasnt special but dont come along thinking you know everything about love in all its forms. love can occur whenever and in any amount of time if you cant call love something where you cant stop thinking about them or thinking how amazing they were and how much you miss them and how sad you feel without them when you think of them even if you havent seen them in over a year. are you honestly telling me that love is a device that is only active after a certain while or in a certain situation like marriage. you are so very wrong if you havent found someone who you love instantly after a short period of time then you obviously havent met someone who fits you perfectly. Theres nothing saying you cant feel so attached to someone after a few weeks of amazing times and happiness and the way they make you feel complete if a person can make you feel so amazing in a few weeks then what does time matter as yes you may find things later that you dont like but that is not LOVE that is a relationship. |
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| JJ44KK |
How do people die by aerosols? I want to be with him =/ This is the only way? | ||||||
| Fizzy |
In regards to the argument about love, between Ryberto and Chrissie...
I think that basically love means different things to different people and, because there is no way of knowing exactly what being 'in love' should feel like, everybody has their own idea about when they think they are actually in love. Love also develops over time, which is why people in long term relationships see their love as more real than newly found love. I can't recollect when I actually realised I was properly in love with my boyfriend, it's hard to tell. |
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| ryberto |
dont get me wrong i think teenagers and people throw the word love around like its a toy or some sort of duty, but to say that you cannot be in love from the get go is just pure short sitedness love comes in many forms wheter it be instant or long term, neither bieng less real than the other or less special. | ||||||
| Fizzy |
Yeah it's completely relative to the person as to when they think they can fall in love. I personally don't think I myself could feel 'in love' with somebody after two weeks, but I would definately build very strong feelings for them in that time. | ||||||
| Chrissie |
I think its a sense of feeling wanted or very strong feelings for that person in the beginning, love develops the more you get to know and spend time with that person, once you go through anniversaries and special days.
You can tell me im wrong a million times but wait until you have been there properly and you might actually stop and think about it and realise that love builds over time. |
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| rebecca1 |
jodie don't harm yourself. He's probably fine and you two will be together again one day.
I feel so sorry for you. But keep hoping. I think I love this guy in my school. After a fiew seconds of talking to him I felt so happy and a rush of emotions went through me. It's the weekend now and I misss him already. I know it's think. but there's something about him. |
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| Chrissie |
Yeah the date...and they are banned...LOL
Locked. |