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Hammers10

Girl trouble!

Theres a girl in my class who is going out with my best mate.
but she says her best friend really fancies me and it's Joe this Joe that.
But the thing is from what i've seen.
i don't really like her.
and now her best friend is chasing me everywhere with her other friends saying:
"where's your male dignity, Talk to her!"
"you'll never find someone else"
and i was playing football today and her friends were there one minute then they wern't and she was looking at
me in this weird way.
and now all the people in my tutor are jeering me b'cos i ran away.
when i didn't i just tried to get away beacuse they were restrainging me by tieing me to fences and punching me.
and now i'm kind of scared to go into school because all my mates have all had girlfriends and i havn't.
and they say:
2 go out with her and thenm dump her the next day so you can sya you've ahd a gfriend."
but thats mean.
please help otherwise i'm gonna end up bunking off or staying away from my friends.

yours,
a very scared and sad,
Joe
a l e x

go out wit her mate
Hammers10

i just can't bring myself to talk anymore.
not to anybody face to face.
a l e x

y not.
Hammers10

look fagata i appreciate you trying your best but it ain't halping.
i need advice on what to do about it.
cos now her best mate is telling me she is so UPSET that i haven't talked to her.
i just need help from someone with experiance!
a l e x

so go have a small chat if she asks you out say

"i'm not ready"
"don't wanna go out with anyone at this moment"
redwhitey

ive got dat same problem just try 2 ignore her or atleast tell ur not interested or something. tell ur m8s u dont care wot day think and og and ask the girl ur like out. if this helpd plz add karma and tokens
deals_on_wheels

right what you do is talk to her just a little and then maybe try and say to her that you aint ready yet and maybe she might like lay off a bit if you tell her that the more she is upset the worst it makes you feel and she might give you some space
Brad

Just say no as u said in ure first post you dont like her and your only young you got ure hole life to find some 1, its not worth going out with some one if you dont like them and dont listen to ure mates thats wrong just say to them u dont like her and ure not going to go out with her and thell probs tease u for a week then move onto the next kid, just dont get forced into anything u dont want its upto u its ure life, ive had it all at school before
iliveinireland

Tell your mates to stick to their own business and dont be going into yours.

And tell her that your not ready yet
Kitty

They are bullying you becuase you don't feel the same way about her
It is ridiculous how they think you should go out with her and dump her... And that would make you have a fit in with the 'I've had a girlfriend (go me)'. The people in your tutor are absolute idiots.
You should have a girlfriend when you really respect and admire that person, in your own time when you are ready. What's the point in having someone to call a 'girlfriend' if you have no feelings what-so-ever for her?
You should be really flattered that someone likes you so much. But if you don't feel the same way, drop signs, but try not to hurt her.
Tell the guys in your tutor that you don't care if they have 'girlfriend'. It's what you want. And you are happy without. If they continue to harrass you, then you really should tell someone about it. It's not fair, and you shouldn't have to suffer.
Hammers10

Thanks guys!
and anyway it turns out she dosn't want me any more! WOOHOOO!
she now fancy's this kid bcoz of his hair!
stupid.
deals_on_wheels

omg she is one weard person because of his hair lol im glad you got it sorted
Hammers10

Cheers!
have given all of u +5 Karma and komment!
Wolverine

Glad u got it sorted mate.
Hammers10

OH NO!!!!!!!!!!

now there is trouble!!!
i was in the library and she kept winking @ me.
and everywhere i went she followed.
the lunch hall,
the library,
the arena,
the canteen,
EVERYWHERE

what am i gonna do???
H-H

either ask her what she is doing or just be smooth nd put up with it - ignore her
stalkers like that can actually give your reputation a plus lol
but if shes not that nice / or u arent ready or w/e just tell her to wise up. simple as
Hammers10

cheers!
ryberto

just start telling people shes been stalking you and everyone will think shes a wierdo

but i think you should just ask her and if you dont like her tell her dont say coz u aint ready as shell keep it up till u are just tell her to ---- off politely
Paulolad

she is a total female dog tell her to grow up and stop messing you about, it's not funny. I got messed around like that and her boyfriend didnt end up being a happy person after what i did...
Hammers10

HOORAY!
evrythings sorted (again)

i asked her what the hell she was doing and now she hates me!
WOOHOO!
Alice Smith

Girls Do Like Boys With Good Hair
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