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Hammers10

HELP! TRAUMATIC TIME!

my parents are divorced, so i live with my mum and my bro, but because of this i dont see my dad too much.
but now it's been a YEAR since i saw my dad and he owes me alot,
my dad owes me:

£500
a full west ham kit
a Trip to see west ham play.

and i hear from him once a year,IN A BIRTHDAY CARD!!!!!

it always says;
to Joee happy birthday ,
Love dad.


And thats that,
for a whole year!
plus also every year we have a day where i do whatever i want.
but for a year amd probably 2 years because my B'days only about 2 months away, i haven't.

please help!
KieraN

Help with what..

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Hayley

I don't get the problem.

Maybe just ring him?
Hammers10

i don't konow his numba.
he keep schanging his number and address.
what would you lot do???
Hayley

Do you know where he works?

Maybe they could give you his number or something?
Kajeets

Whats the problem, I don't understand it.
Olivah

Has he re-married?
Chrissie

How exactly does he owe you these things?

What did you do to get them?
Jak08

umm i dont mean to criticise as i realise this could be a harrd time for yoo but it seems your a bit more interested in the items he owes yoo than seeing him? correct me if im wrong...

what exactly is the problem?

sorry for not understanding..

Jak.
matchoftheday

whats the problem
Hammers10

Jak08 wrote:
umm i dont mean to criticise as i realise this could be a harrd time for yoo but it seems your a bit more interested in the items he owes yoo than seeing him? correct me if im wrong...

what exactly is the problem?

sorry for not understanding..

Jak.


i'll correct you.

i really miss him and i know nothing,
has he remarried?
where does he work?
i just don't know.

and how he came to owe me these things..

for my tenth birthday (it's coming up to my twelth)
he promised to take me to a west ham match and and buy me the kit. (which he hasn't yet.)

and one day there was £500 out of my account.
i told him someone had taken it, and he said it was it was him and he would pay me back.
(which he hasn't)

and i'm not more concerned about the items.
i just want to see my dad again.
Hammers10

???

matchoftheday wrote:
whats the problem


sorry to double post but it's spam in a very emotional topic like this that drives me to hate Matchoftheday.
READ THE TOPIC AND YOU MIGHT FIND OUT YOU MORON!!!!
deals_on_wheels

ask your mum if you can see him and tell her you got rights to see your dad

and im really sorry your even going through this
DBColUtd

Now you mention the reasons why he owes you the pocessions it seems more reasonable.

Well, if you talk to your mum and ask her, very firmly, that you want to see your dad.
If shed oesn't know where he is or his number then look up his name in the telephone directory.

And the fact that he has taken £500 out of your account and not given it back isn't good at all. If he does that and hasn't given it back then it's theft, even if he is your dad.

I hope it gets better for you, if theres no luck with finding him or talking to him then you might need to try and move on, no matter how hard it maybe.

Hope that helps
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