II HBK II
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Im stuck.Well theres this girl that sits next to me in my class and shes in alot of them. Apparantley she fancies me and I fancy her. Shes really cute. And I dunno what to do , Im kinda nervous askin her out. And she goes to this park alot but the poeple she goes with sometimes *censored* me off and I dont like em , What should I do if I went out with her?
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cuddlyewok
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Well, why not take her to the cinema?
That way, it is just the 2 of you.
Afterwards, if things are still going good, you could then get something to eat, which would then give you both chance to talk to each other, once again, on your own, and away from her friends.
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II HBK II
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I might ask her out on valentines day.
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Steve-Posh
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that be nice
ask if she want go cinema and for food on valentines day
all the best II HBK II
let us know what happening
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II HBK II
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Im going to ask her out this week I think! Maybe today or tommorrow but I definatley will.
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iPodtouch
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Go For It 
Hope It Works Out 
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II HBK II
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She said she wants to be friends  I thought she really liked meh.
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cuddlyewok
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| II HBK II wrote: | | She said she wants to be friends I thought she really liked meh. |
Sorry to hear that.
She probably does really like you, but not in the "girlfiend/boyfriend" relationship.
Still, at least you now know, and, the way to look at it, is that she will still be good to have as a friend.
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II HBK II
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Yea , Im sure she fanieed me though.
Sheblew kisses to me , when saw me waved. Even her mates said she fancied me.
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rebecca1
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Try being really sweet and be yourself around her. Why not send her gifts without her knowing it's you and then if she likes that and asks to meet you tell her who you are. She will think you're really sweet and perhaps she will like you more.
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Olivah
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She's probably just nervous of going into a relationship - would it be her first boyfriend/girlfriend thing? - Don't worry about it, hopefully it'll all be great soon
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II HBK II
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Yeah , shes probably not ready. She told me she has had relationships before. But even her best friend told me that she likes me alot. I do sweet talk her alot actually and make her laugh.
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Chrissie
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| II HBK II wrote: | | Yeah , shes probably not ready. She told me she has had relationships before. But even her best friend told me that she likes me alot. I do sweet talk her alot actually and make her laugh. |
In that case then maybe give it time? Let the feelings grow slowly? She might have been nervous before
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II HBK II
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Yeah , next time she blows a kiss ill blow one back. And other stuff <3
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Chrissie
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Yeah just dont do too much too fast, let her have the 'driving seat' for a while and see if things develop
Good luck
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Peew4K
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go up to her pull your pants down and say "hi there" that might not work Ii don't think it's tested lol
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iPodtouch
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 !
Very Funny
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a l e x
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ask her out on a private date or something.
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II HBK II
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Oh yeah , thats no different to a normal date?
Normal date - just the 2 of you somewhere.
Private - Just the 2 of you.
She wrote a love heart today with the 1st letter of her name , and the drew a line and put a boy.
Probably she likes me!
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Chrissie
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Aww that does sound promising!! 
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II HBK II
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Yeah but theres this other lad whos more of a friend than I am. It really worries me
And its like he's tryin to push me out.
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Chrissie
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You said he is more of a friend than you, friend is the worst place to be for things to develop because she will just think of you as a friend
If she does like you, no guy will be able to push you out
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II HBK II
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Yeah , Im sure she does. I have first lesson sitting next to her , I dunno what to take it to next level.
When I last sat with her she started pinching so I pinched back. Flirty or what?
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Chrissie
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Yes very flirty 
Sounds as if she is intrested, and is probably having a similar sort of conversation with a friend about how to take things a bit further, without scaring you off
What about inviting her out with a big group of friends one day? Thats a way to get closer without actually asking for a lot
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II HBK II
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I want to do that but none of my friends will. Only 1 who would is the one who got me into this whole thing. I wouldent feel comfortable with a group of her friends or on my own with her. Id feel relaed if I went out with her but not at the moment.
My friend goes to a club on friday and she also goes. I might start going aswell.
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Chrissie
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Yes definatly go! She might even be happy to see you there could be a chance to spend some time together away from school
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II HBK II
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Yeah! Ill hopefully try and go with my mate and see what happens!
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Chrissie
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Cool good luck
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matchoftheday
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takeher sumwhere nice she would love that
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II HBK II
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Well , I sit next to her in maths. But now she got moved But ill try going to that club , I also am friends with her mate so I talk to her bout her.
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Hammers10
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awww | II HBK II wrote: | Yea , Im sure she fanieed me though.
Sheblew kisses to me , when saw me waved. Even her mates said she fancied me. |
im really sorry to hear that!
by the way change that to fancied b'cos it sounds dodgy as Fanieed me!
but yeah don't shy away.
i did that with this girl that was really cute and she went out with someone else.
Gutting.
but even if that happens don't let it get you down after all 8/10 boyfriend/girlfriend relationships don't work out.
but as rebecca 1 said; send her gifts NEVER be mean or laugh about her.
and remember,
from experiance,
don't talk about gross stuff to girls.
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II HBK II
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Yeah obvious. I asked her mate if she still like me and she says she doesent think so. I still havent been to that club and dont think I will. She osted that im cute on my bebo so im still stuck on what to do still.
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Chrissie
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Go to that club You need to see her outside school
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II HBK II
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Ill try yeah.
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LoL
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send her luv on Bebo
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Captainteacups
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| LoL wrote: | | send her luv on Bebo |
oh thats hardcore lol
nah just go up put your arm round her and tell her how u feel!
and remember always use condoms! 
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II HBK II
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Dude im 13. And no , im not goin that far yet. When she calls me babe on msn ill call her gorgeous see how she likes it.
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Captainteacups
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good stuff mate u get in there
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II HBK II
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Yeah :/ Im still waiting. Ill leave it as it is.
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II HBK II
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Now my mate has hooked me up with this girl who I talk to on msn most of the time.
She is 3 years older than me and lives nowhere near me , I like her but my friend says it doesent matter that she is 3 years older and lives far away.
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Chrissie
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Is that what you want though?
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II HBK II
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I just talk to her and we joke about lovin each other and stuff.
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II HBK II
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Well my friend who I talk , to he's 18 invited me into a convo and thats how we met. He asked her out and she said yes. I really cant see them lasting as its a very long way from each other.
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