Olivah
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Please help :(Okay, here's my problem...
I asked a girl out who I really liked and she no, and that she wanted us just to stay good friends but I took it fairly badly and have been acting really immaturely.
I've been ignoring her and basically making it out to her that I don't like her and I don't want her to be my friend anymore, I feel terrible and regret my spiteful behaviour. 
I wish that I had just accepted it but now I think I've lost a good friend. 
Please help, I've even been thinking of sucicide!
-Olivah
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A Bunny
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1stly NO SUCIDE and just tell her how u feel
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iPodtouch
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A)
Sucide - No! - Even you have said to people dont do it.
B)
Just walk up and say sorry, It really does help
C)
Really Mean It, And Explain Why You Were Like It
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akasquid
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Kill yourself, but make sure she knows it's her fault!
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Olivah
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Akaquid, I don't think that's very appropriate.
Thanks for the advice Wizzingwizzer, I think it was the best, I've already added you a comment/karma so I can't again
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iPodtouch
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Thanks, Glad I Helped
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akasquid
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| Olivah wrote: | Akaquid, I don't think that's very appropriate.
Thanks for the advice Wizzingwizzer, I think it was the best, I've already added you a comment/karma so I can't again |
I'm making you realise how moronic and idea it is killing yourself because of a girl.
My statement was exactly what you were talking about doing. Realise how stupid it is now?
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Olivah
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I do realize now, clever psychology 
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Kitty
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Don't think about suicide. It will hurt the people you love much more than it hurts you.
I think you should apologize for how you have been acting to her. Explain things through to her. Make sure she understands and hope for the best!
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Pixie.
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What is it with this forum and suicide?
Cuh.
And yeah, I think a good idea would be to sit her down/get her on her own and just thoroughly explain that you didn't take the rejection well, and it's affecting your behaviour towards her.
Hopefully she'll see how mighty fine you really are, and dive into your open arms.
... Or, take your apology (:
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Brad
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i only sui on games wen i get a bad spawn.
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Olivah
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| Brad wrote: | | i only sui on games wen i get a bad spawn. |
Huh? 
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akasquid
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| Olivah wrote: | | Brad wrote: | | i only sui on games wen i get a bad spawn. |
Huh? |
Brad is officially a genius, perfect post and a perfect response.
10/10.
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a l e x
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1st of all don't kill yourself say to her "sorry for being a Richard's Head lately, I didn't really mean all that horrible stuff I just felt sad and deppressed please forgive me"
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Olivah
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Thanks Alex, I won't kill myself, I was just upset and distraught when I posted that thread. I think that I'll take your advice and apologise to her, I think I'm going to get her a little sorry present as well.
Thank you
-Olivah
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Hammers10
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Buy her something really nice, put a handmade card (by you) inside, tellling her how sorry you are and admitting to being a Jerk, or whatever you want to call it.
then go up to her in private, say to her, i feel really bad about how i've neen acting, and to say sorry, i bought you a little something.
hope i helped
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Fizzy
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I would have commented sooner but didn't see this thread til today...
Have you made up with her yet Olivah? The getting her a sorry present is a sweet idea.
As long as you explain yourself well enough so she understands, I'm sure she will forgive you.
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Olivah
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We've made up, so it's all good! 
I explained why I was acting so idiotically and she completely understood as she had apparently been in similar situations.
Yup, I got her a little sorry present, some earrings which went down well, she wears them into school most days. 
Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it!
-Olivah 
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a l e x
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Cool glad to hear it's all good now
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