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 Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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| groovycat94 wrote: | | im 12 and smoke cus my bf pressured me i only have about six fags a day though i wish i didnt though cus they taste horrible! |
Six a day is quite a lot in my opinion. You really should stop for both the sake of your health and also because of the fact that you're four years under the age you're meant to be able to buy cigarettes. Places like Boots or the doctors should be able to give you advice and help about how to give up.
If you think your boyfriend will dump you if you quit smoking, he's not worth it.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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You are far too young to be doing any of that, and no one should ever take drugs no matter what their age.
You are risking your health and, in effect, your life by being with this boy so I'd get out of this relationship if I were you. If you like him, what do you like about him if he makes you do things you're not comfortable with?
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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fizzy, I need your help.
My friend (and it is my friend) wants to start smoking, because she likes the taste of it, is there anything I can do?
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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yes u have got a point he just looks cute.by the way he smokes drugs and wants me have sex with him everytime i go his house.ive done it a coupe of times he does use protection but i feel really uncomfortable ive smoked a while but had drugs once
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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| groovycat94 wrote: | | yes u have got a point he just looks cute.by the way he smokes drugs and wants me have sex with him everytime i go his house.ive done it a coupe of times he does use protection but i feel really uncomfortable ive smoked a while but had drugs once |
You can't be with someone just because you like how they look. It sounds like he is taking advantage of you, and you shouldn't be having sex at your age you are far too young. What would you do if the condom splits one day, surely you don't want to get pregnant? A baby is a huge responsibility and I very much doubt he would stay with you if that happened.
If he smokes cannabis, that can do a lot of things to him including making him paranoid plus it is addictive obviously. If he gets caught by police with cannabis in his possession he will be in trouble, and so might you be if you're with him at the time.
| Ancodi wrote: | fizzy, I need your help.
My friend (and it is my friend) wants to start smoking, because she likes the taste of it, is there anything I can do? |
Ancodi - I think the financial side of smoking is a good thing to put smoking into perspective to people. Tell her how much it costs for say a pack of ten cigarettes, and times that by however many she would smoke in a week. Then times that by the month, and then the year. The total will be pretty shocking for her, tell her what else she could do with that money.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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You and your boyfriend obviously want different things, he wants sex in the relationship and you don't (and so you shouldn't). If he is worth keeping and you think that without the sex he will be a good boyfriend, then he should understand when you tell him that you don't feel ready to have sex. If he reacts badly, he definately isn't worth it and you should end the relationship. What's the point in being with someone if they don't respect how you feel?
Also I think you should definately stop smoking. It might sound too difficult now, because tobacco is addictive, but there are ways of quitting and the sooner the better. You can get hold of special chewing gum and patches to wear on your arm at chemists and the doctors.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:10 pm Post subject: |
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thx for the advice but i dont think im ready to stop smoking. by the way i emaild him about stop having sex and he said hes a bit upset about it but he wants to cus he loves me loads but we can do it when im ready
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:12 pm Post subject: |
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| groovycat94 wrote: | | thx for the advice but i dont think im ready to stop smoking. by the way i emaild him about stop having sex and he said hes a bit upset about it but he wants to cus he loves me loads but we can do it when im ready |
Ok well that sounds like a good sign.
Do think again about the smoking though.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject: |
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| groovycat94 wrote: | | it just feels good and calms me down and it makes me look grown up |
There are other ways to achieve all three of those things without spending so much money and damaging your health.
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