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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2007 6:01 pm    Post subject: Self-Harm
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Who does it?

All kinds of people self-harm, but it’s most common among girls age 15-19 and men aged 20-24. It’s not known exactly how many people self-harm, as it’s often hidden.

Why do they do it?

The reasons people self-harm are often misunderstood. It isn't usually just attention seeking (after all, self-harming hurts).

For some people hurting themselves is a way of coping with emotions or anxiety. Sometimes a physical pain provides a relief to the feelings in their head.

Self-harmers usually want to stop, but don’t know how else to cope. They may not know how to express emotions, or perhaps they believe that they’re bad and deserve to be punished.

What should I do if I self-harm?

You don’t have to keep it secret or let it rule your life. Talk to someone today. Start with your GP or one of the organisations below.

In the meantime, try doing something else when you get the urge to harm. Squeezing an ice-cube works for many people.

What if one of my friends self-harms?

The most important thing is to be accepting and not judgemental. Offer to listen if they want to talk. Gently try to persuade them to get professional help and not to keep it secret.

But remember, it's not your fault if they harm, and you mustn't feel guilty if they carry on.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 7:23 pm    Post subject:
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It does help

But lads about 15 can do it too.

Right ill tell someone what i know to tell his GP.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 8:08 pm    Post subject:
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One Of My Friends Slits There Arm, Its Horrible Because He Draws On It And The Blood Goes Purple And Yuck!!!!

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 8:14 pm    Post subject:
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thats a good guide
it will help olot of people

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:38 am    Post subject:
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good guide i dont self harm but just saying:)

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:19 pm    Post subject:
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great guide i used to but not any more

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 6:01 pm    Post subject: thanks
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thanks thats gonna help alot of peps

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 10:21 pm    Post subject:
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Thanks For trying to get me to stop but i feel i have to keep self-harming

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 4:46 pm    Post subject:
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Good guide, for if i ever do self harm.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 12:20 pm    Post subject:
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MCR rule think about why your doing it are you trying to imprss anyone or is it for attention think about it one day you could do it then you could be dead

so think about it, ok?

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 9:41 pm    Post subject:
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MCR Rule wrote:
Thanks For trying to get me to stop but i feel i have to keep self-harming
listen to steel u could be dead if u carry on and why do u do it??

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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 10:07 pm    Post subject:
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its a good guide, but im gonna find it hard stoppin

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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 10:12 pm    Post subject:
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agreed at the moment its my life.

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