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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:42 pm    Post subject: sex question
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im 13 almost 14 i was wondering could i have sex now? im just wondering is that what people my age do? i hear that some of my friends have been doing stuff with girls and i dont even socialise with girls, i feel like i need a girlfriend its wierd  






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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:47 pm    Post subject:
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Well if your asking a forum then i very much doubt your ready ;l
Just go with the flow, it will all happen in time ;]
Or of cause, you could always go gay (Y) Every School needs a John Barrowman..

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:52 pm    Post subject: Re: sex question
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im 13 almost 14 i was wondering could i have sex now? im just wondering is that what people my age do? i hear that some of my friends have been doing stuff with girls and i dont even socialise with girls, i feel like i need a girlfriend its wierd  


Most kids your age won't have had sex, don't worry about it. It's not even technically allowed until you're 16, and it's nothing to be ashamed of if you don't have one, most aren't even 'proper' relationships at that age, no matter what they tell you. Whatever they say is probably a lie anyway, don't let it get to you.

Just get on with your life, you'll meet plenty of girls if you just act yourself.

Of course, this may have been a lie to make you feel better, that's up for you to decide.

You big freak.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 1:08 am    Post subject:
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Well, for someone your age, I think having sex is a one way ticket for a bad reputation. Although, I guess it depends where you live :\
But yeah, if you're uncertain about it, it prooves youre not ready.
Leave all these thoughts until you have a long term serious relationship, and you feel as if you're ready.

Love isn't a race, despise how many things your friends have apparantly done with girls. Girls will respect you more if they know you're not just with them for the sexual perks.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:10 am    Post subject:
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As lots of people have already said, the chances are people your age haven't really done the stuff you've heard about. A couple of my friends are 19 nearly 20 and they are still single, never been with anybody before! It's nothing to worry about, people do things at their own pace. I didn't meet anybody I wanted to be with until I was 16 n half, and even then I waited until I was 17 to have sex.

Still with the same guy and it's over 4 years now




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I think I'm paranoid because I live in my bedroom with an xbox 360... (yes I'm extremely sad and all of a sudden girls have become interesting)

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My boyfriend lives in his bedroom with his PC...and he's 23 lol. It's a guy thing.

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I know it's just I'm 13 and I know I should have better things to do than live with an xbox.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 7:31 pm    Post subject:
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Then join a sports club or a youth club of some sort. You will get out and do things other than Xbox, and you will meet new people




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I might just try to get out with more people, thanks for the help people ( particularly fizzy )

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Depends how long you can keep it up

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:28 pm    Post subject:
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I might just try to get out with more people, thanks for the help people ( particularly fizzy )

Hi paul!
Anyway, you know I've gone through the feeling useless thing, and what I found is joining an amateur dramatics group really helps. It made me feel like I was part of something. This could also be a sport team, volunteering for charity, maybe start a band with some mates, or a dance group, or whatever. Just do what you love to do and share it with others!

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:40 pm    Post subject:
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yeh mate just do what you want - i think that to be honest you should do whatever feels right

if you think your ready then maybe, but if there are any doubts, its best to wait until you feel like you are ready for that type of commitment (and i know we are already talking just i wanted you to know this for future reference)

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